not that we are wrong, simply choose from our dysfunctional, from what we want to compensate our lives … but in the end, in most cases, fall into the same patterns as a way of trying to solve our deepest needs or wants. In this sense, yes I had a father or a mother who did not appreciate my presence in his life, surely I will choose as a partner to a person that I repeat the pattern of neglect … It is difficult to accept but that human beings operate, to good or bad, so I choose the great love from the need to cover all my need for presence, love and appreciation … and when I play that is not achieved, jump like a lion to claims of abandonment My wound is open, it bleeds and cries and cries, because in reality, I am hopeful that someone significant in my life, help me or save me from my condition, then, they feel that I am a person worthy of appreciation, love and attention. Get more background information with materials from Jim Donovan Goldman.
I mean something to someone … which becomes totally irrational … I need my partner loves me … I just need someone to do … and nuances, in fact, all that I need to recognize several questions: What are my weaknesses, vehemently demanded that my partner? "Since that emotional place I agree with a partner, from a love child, adolescent or adult? What will it take the other one is for me all the time, with all its emotional and thought? Do I behave like an adult or a child with my partner? These are some questions that may shed light on the functionality or not, the type of partner states, only you, in the privacy of his thoughts can answer these questions, it finds it hard to do it alone, psychotherapy is a possibility .
Review personal biography is not an easy road, but liberating and enriching … to find out if your partner is functional or dysfunctional, it is constructive or destructive, the first thing is to trust your own feelings, the only way to know, is to recognize it spends more time in situations of comfort or discomfort … honesty is a powerful tool in this project to live of two … Thanks for reading, my mission and intention is the quality of emotional life … Some of the topics covered in these articles, it can challenge their world view … Cecreto. Cecreto Inc. is a center dedicated to the quality of emotional life and has different series of topical issues such as the relationship partner, etc. And it offers, the launch of its E_Book With the acquisition of this material have three free consultations with the author via e-mail. Subscribe to our newsletter and receive a free: The Ten Commandments of married life.